Hormones and Law's of Attraction
23:58:00After reading a post related to "Recipe For a Happy Marriage" from a blog, I felt those suggestions are good enough to keep the...
23:58:00
After reading a post related to
"Recipe For a Happy Marriage" from a blog, I felt
those suggestions are good enough to keep the relation happy. But at a point I felt that people fall in love with out any particular reason and it happens
just based on attraction. As per science, attraction has a cause and reason.
First is the "Role of hormones" and second is based on
"Evolutionary need".
The
Role of Hormones
This is the basic scientific reason
I got to know is as "Hormones are a form of chemical compounds in our body
which is released at various stages of life and times as per need. The role
they play in influencing our minds and bodies to get attracted to somebody is
also pivotal. A famous study defines the "First stage of love to be lust, Second as Attraction and Third as Attachment". Different
hormones in our body, which is discussed as below, influence these various
stages.
Stage I –
Lust
This is the first stage of love, in
which we try to get a desirable being of opposite sex and satiate our carnal
desires. This stage is mostly related with the sexual fantasies that a human
being carries in his/her mind. The sex hormone that influence or cause this stage
is testosterone and estrogen in both males and females.
Stage II –
Attraction
This is the most beautiful stage
when one is said to have "fallen in love". Why can't it be said as
"Rise in love". This has certain reasons to say one has "fallen
in love". Love starts when a person gives utmost importance to another.
The person, totally in thoughts of his/her lover and can think of nothing
else than that person. This tends to a kind of fallen behaviour than rising for
oneself. The hormones that play their role for such an emotional state are the
following
- Dopamine :
Dopamine is a hormone that acts as a neurotransmitter. When this hormone
is triggered, the individual experience the similar pleasurable feeling
like that experienced when taking drugs! This brings in a wave of pleasant
feelings, additional energy and focus. The need for sleep and taking rest
is felt to go down.
- Adrenaline :
The process of falling for some body is characterized by a rush of
adrenaline in your blood. This affects your response to stress, increased heartbeat
and dryness of mouth- indicators of initiation of love.
Stage III –
Attachment
This is considered as the last stage
of love and very much needed for a successful relationship. Scientists believe that
there are two hormones, which have a role to invoke this feeling - Oxytocin and
Vassopressin.
Evolutionary
Need
It can be considered to be the
central factor that attracts the potential mate to a creature in the nature.
The same is true for human beings as well. As the evolution theory goes, if a
creature mates with a weaker mate, the off-springs are also weak and may not be
able to survive against this harsh nature.
This might at some point of time
lead to the total extinction of the species from earth. In order to avoid this,
it is natural that we try to attract and also get attracted to a stronger,
healthier and attractive mate so that there is no problem in the continuity of
our heritage.
Though this theory might not play in
our mind in our real lives but it is actually what the science of evolution
tells us and it does explain to a good extent the laws of attraction and love.
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/attraction/hot-or-not-the-rules-of-attraction-1605270.html
Listen to Song "What is Love? Baby don't hurt me no more"
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